Christmas Beyond the Glitter: Finding Joy in the Simple Moments

Hey there valuable mamas!

What is Christmas really?

For some, Christmas feels like pure magic - the child dashing toward the tree, the grandmother perfecting her beloved cookie recipe, the house alive with chatter and laughter, hearts beating in festive harmony, smiles blooming simply because something wonderful is on its way.

But truthfully, for others (and maybe for us, too), this season can feel heavy. Not because of tragedy, but because the glow and the “forced cheer” highlight what’s missing, what didn’t turn out as we hoped, what we spent all year trying to push aside.

And you know what? That’s okay. Many of us carry a quiet sadness during the holidays - a feeling that wonders if it belongs among garlands and glitter. And yes, it does. Because this isn’t bitterness or ingratitude; it’s the deeply human need to tell our truth without sugarcoating it. The most genuine celebration begins when we allow ourselves to feel what we truly feel - no masks, no pretending.

So, How Do We Truly Enjoy Christmas?

As a mom of three, I’ve learned that joy doesn’t come from the perfect tree or the Pinterest-worthy table setting. It comes from the little things - the ones that don’t make it to Instagram but stay in your heart forever.

1. Practice Self-Care

Drop the pressure to create a flawless holiday. Burnt cookies? Who cares. Wrapping paper that looks like a toddler did it? Laugh it off. Give yourself permission to rest. If you need a nap, take it. If you need quiet, claim it. How do you expect to take care of others if you do not take care of yourself first? Self-care isn’t selfish - it’s survival. Light a scented candle, make yourself a cup of coffee and breathe. Put your phone away for 30 minutes and read a chapter of that book you’ve been ignoring. These simple rituals can perform miracles in resetting your mood.

2. Embrace the Simple Moments

This is where true joy hides. Cocoon on the couch with your kids and watch a Christmas movie (yes, even if you’ve seen it 100 times). Bake cookies together and let them make a mess. These imperfect moments? They’re the ones your children will remember.

3. Let Go of Glitter

Christmas isn’t about the sparkle - it’s about connection. Forget the pressure to impress. Instead, choose presence over perfection. Sit with your loved ones, share stories, laugh until your belly hurts. That’s the magic.

Christmas doesn’t have to be loud or flawless. It can be quiet, tender, and real. It can be about holding your child close, sipping cocoa slowly, and whispering gratitude for what you have.

Because in the end, Christmas isn’t found in glitter. It lives in the simple, genuine spaces where love feels real.

Love, Katerina